Facilitating Difficult Conversations Between Adult Learners

Educator facilitates a difficult conversation between and among adult learners.
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About this Micro-credential

Key Method

Educator incorporates the skills associated with effective facilitation strategies into difficult conversations.

Method Components

Effective Facilitation Strategies

Educator must include the following:

  • Identifying the root cause of various types of conflict
    • Ask why a position is important.
    • Identify underlying issues
    • Separate the problem from the people involved
    • Ensure differences are fully explained, heard, and understood
    • Make interests explicit
    • Understand the change process and ensure that there is an appropriate plan in place to implement change strategies to reduce potential conflict
  • Acknowledging differences, admitting conflict, and responding to conflict as it arises
    • Be willing to address conflicts in a timely fashion
    • Facilitate feedback processes with colleagues in a way that is productive
    • Gather data and evidence to use in feedback dialogue or when managing conflict
    • Use evidence to engage learners in constructive conversations
    • Listen nonjudgmentally
    • Recognize that we can be different and hold different perspectives and continue to work together successfully
    • Recognize that conflict does not have to be personal, territorial, or emotional.
    • Ensure differences are fully explained, heard, and understood
    • Stay calm and stay engaged
    • Learn more about the speaker’s intentions and prior experiences
    • Separate the problem from the people involved
    • Use positive presuppositions that presume a person has ability, a positive attitude, and positive intention
  • Managing resistance
    • Understand possible reasons for resistance
    • Reduce resistance by responding to the needs that people have
    • Anticipate and appropriately manage opposing points of view and challenging behavior
    • Seek out and motivate colleagues
    • Respect those who resist
    • Stay calm and stay engaged
    • Learn more about the speaker’s intentions
    • Refocus stakeholders on areas of agreement
    • Separate the problem from the people involved
    • Identify commonalities and state interests in terms that are mutually acceptable
    • Do not make decisions or problem-solve until differences are fully explained, heard, and understood

And, should include at least two of the following:

  • Building trust
  • Honoring diversity
  • Understanding how individuals perceive situations
  • Maintaining a calm demeanor, even in the face of conflict
  • Staying engaged
  • Identifying the hopes, fears, and interests of conversation participants
  • Seeking to understand
  • Acknowledging and clarifying meaning
  • Summarizing and organizing what has been stated
  • Utilize protocols that guide difficult conversations (for example, tools included in books by Scott, Abrams, Killion, and Stone, Patton, & Heen)

Further Implementation Strategies

In order to implement identifying (the root cause of) various types of conflict, use the following prompts:

To adapt to conflict as it arises, use the following prompts:

  • As you examinedó(the data)ówhat are some of your findings? What has been your past experience with this issue?
  • When you think about ____________ (insert topic), what strategies might be most appropriate?
  • While you monitor ________ (the topic or data), what are some indicators of success you could apply?
  • In considering the strategy/ies), how did you decide _____________ (the action) was the best for__________ (the context/situation)?

To manage resistance, use the following prompts:

  • What is the underlying cause of the resistance?
  • Define the issue in terms of common interests. Use open ended statements: “How can weó?” or “What can be done toó?”)
  • What causes your hesitation in this proposal? What about this idea concerns you?
  • What is causing or underlying the issue/conflict from your perspective?
  • What triggered your belief in this path or solution?
  • What data/evidence are you using that gives you confidence in this path or solution?

To acknowledge differences, admit conflict, and respond to conflict as it arises, use the following prompts:

  • Brainstorm key hopes and fears for __________.
  • Share data/evidence that you are using to support your position.
  • You just made several key pointsó
  • There are three different proposals on the table right now. Let’s work together to outline themó
  • There are several different perspectives that have been identified. Let’s unpack each one, identifying the advantages and challenges that each provides.

Research & Resources

Supporting Research

  • Abrams, J. (2009). Having Hard Conversations. Thousand Oaks, California: Corwin Press.
  • Covey, S. (2008). The Speed of Trust. New York: Free Press.
  • Ellis, D. (2002)._ Falling Awake. Rapid City, Iowa: Breakthrough Enterprises.
  • Fullan, M. (1996). Leadership for Change. In International Handbook of Educational Leadership and Administration (pp. 701-722). Netherlands: Springer Publishing.
  • Gardner, H. (2006). Changing Minds: The Art and Science of Changing Our Own and Other People’s Minds (Leadership for the Common Good). Boston: Harvard Business School Publishing.
  • Killion, J. (2015). The Feedback Process: Transforming Feedback for Professional Learning. Dallas, Texas: Learning Forward.
  • Maurer, R. (2010). Beyond the Wall of Resistance: Why 70% of All Changes Still Fail—and What You Can Do About It (revised edition). Austin, Texas: Bard Press.
  • Maurer, R. (1996). Caught in the Middle. New York: Productivity Press.
  • Scott, S. (2004). Fierce Conversations: Achieving Success at Work and in Life One Conversation at a Time. New York: Berkley Books.
  • Stone, D., Patton, B., & Heen, S. (2010). Difficult Conversations: How to Discuss What Matters Most. New York: Penguin.

Resources

Additional resources are available via Dropbox. To access them, email [email protected]

Submission Requirements

Submission Guidelines & Evaluation Criteria

To earn the micro-credential, you must receive a passing evaluation for Parts 1 and 3, and a “Yes” for Part 2.

Part 1. Overview questions

500-word limit for each response

  • Why did you choose to implement the effective facilitation strategies?
  • Specifically, why did you choose any of the following strategies in particular (pick two):
    • built trust;
    • honored diversity;
    • understood how individuals lierceive situations;
    • maintained a calm demeanor (even in the face of conflict);
    • stayed engaged;
    • identified the hopes, fears, and interests of conversation participants;
    • sought to understand;
    • acknowledged and clarified meaning;
    • summarized and organized what was stated;
    • and/or utilized protocols that guided difficult conversations (see the tools included in books by Scott, Abrams, Killion, and Stone, Patton, & Heen).

Part 2. Evidence/artifacts

Educator demonstrates the use of effective strategies for managing and facilitating a difficult conversation.

Video must include all of the following: identifying the root cause of different types of conflict; adapting to conflict as it arises; managing resistance; acknowledging differences; and admitting conflict

and at least two of the following: building trust; honoring diversity; understanding how individuals perceive situations; maintaining calm demeanor (even in the face of conflict); staying engaged; identifying the hopes, fears, and interests of conversation participants, seeking to understand; acknowledging and clarifying meaning; summarizing and organizing what has been stated; and utilizing protocols that guide difficult conversations. Identify clearly which two you used.

Note: One video generally cannot demonstrate all of these strategies.

Part 3. Reflection

500-word limit for each response

  • Reflect on how the incorporation of this competency has affected your current practice with colleagues and students.
  • Also reflect on how incorporation of this competency changed your level of confidence relative to dealing with potentially contentious situations with colleagues, school leaders, or district leaders

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